Heartbreak

Jun. 30th, 2011 01:23 pm
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We tried to work things out, but Alice has been cheating on me with a married man she works with.
I gave her a chance to break things off with him. She managed about 2 weeks before they were texting each other and going for drinks again.
I devoted myself to her for 5 years, and now it's over, and I am very sad.
But I'm trying to look to the future and I know I can move on.

Date: 2011-06-30 01:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] torment2romance.livejournal.com
Oh my god....I am so so sorry to hear this, honestly I'm absolutely disgusted with Alice. From reading on your journal I know how much you devoted yourself to her and how much support and encouragement you gave her when she was transitioning. How she could be so cruel and unfaithful to you when you've given her so much is just unforgivable..well she'll soon realise the amazing thing she's thrown away and i'm sure this affair with a *married* man will blow up in her face.

Five years is a long time yes, but you deserve someone who is better than that. I promise you will find someone else who will treat you as the amazing person you are. I hope you feel better soon xxx

Date: 2011-06-30 02:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] suomigoth.livejournal.com
I'm just speechless... *hugs*

I cannot believe that after all you've done for her and how a supportive and amazing girlfriend you have been, THIS is the kind of respect she repays you with.

You deserve someone better. And you will find someone better one day. 'Till then, devote time to yourself. For two long you've put yourself on a second place. Now it's time to focus on yourself. Develop that amazing brain of yours, pamper yourself, do everything that makes you happy!

Date: 2011-06-30 04:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] outofsynch.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry luv. It hurts so much when someone you gave so much to throws it away like that.
and to cheat on you as well....
I wish there was a way to make the heartbreak go faster, or feel less prominent.

i agree with suomigoth though. you probably have been putting yourself in second place to Alice. I know I was with Zoe and her plans and her dreams. I still catch myself thinking like that from time to time. Devoting time to yourself, your happiness, and your dreams is a good idea.

if you need someone to listen, to sympathize, or in general talk to, feel free to let me know (PM on FB or LJ message me)

Date: 2011-06-30 05:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tekalynn.livejournal.com
Oh, I'm so sorry. That's really awful.

Date: 2011-06-30 06:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kdelioncourt.livejournal.com
Ugh, that really sucks *hugs* After you were supportive with her in everything--!
You deserve so much better!

Date: 2011-06-30 06:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] firetigersoul.livejournal.com
OMFG. The nerve! Does she not realize how much you did for her? How lucky she is to have someone like you in her life? I can't believe you're going through this Peff. I'm so sorry, it just sucks completely. I know you can get through it, though. Just keep looking ahead to your goals with school. You'll make it. If you need to talk to anybody, I'm always here for you.

Date: 2011-06-30 08:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kobraski.livejournal.com
fucking hell... :(

lots and lots of love to you.

Date: 2011-06-30 10:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lullula.livejournal.com
Oh man, I can't believe that, after all the support you've given her!

I'm so sorry to hear about this, but you're an amazing person, so I know you'll find someone new who's worthy of you *hug*

Date: 2011-07-02 10:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lady-lillith79.livejournal.com
oh sweetie :( you gave her a chance and she blew it, i cant beleive how bad she has treated you like that
we are here for you if you need us

Date: 2011-07-10 02:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/__purple_sky__/
Oh honey I'm so sorry. *massive hugs* I wish there were something I could do for you. I just.. I can't believe her.

Date: 2011-07-15 10:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] czol.livejournal.com
That is just so amazingly shitty of her, I just can't believe it.
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